I was wondering, what would I do ? or what would you do? How would I feel? or What would you feel?
Lets analyse the word itself first:
LOVE:
a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person
a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person
UNREQUITED
Not returned or reciprocated
Not returned or reciprocated
UNREQUITED LOVE
Define as Love that is not openly reciprocated or understood as such, even though reciprocation is usually deeply desired. The beloved may or may not be aware of the admirer's deep affections.
Define as Love that is not openly reciprocated or understood as such, even though reciprocation is usually deeply desired. The beloved may or may not be aware of the admirer's deep affections.
They say that Unrequited love has long been depicted as noble, an unselfish and stoic willingness to accept suffering.
If you by any means knew that your love will not be returned as you expected, would you willingly let him/her go?
On the other hand, even though you did not love that person, are you willing to commit because of compassion?
In my opinion, I rather be alone old and gray, than to trap a person into a commitment due to compassion. That person, whom, would have been happy, loving freely to the person whom his heart desired.
Unrequited Love is a complex subject, there might be a lot of articles discussing how to overcome this, but still "THE ONLY PERSON WHO CAN HELP YOU IS YOU, in any means, you have a choice, what you feel right for your circumstances, go for it. Just be responsible of its outcome though.
Life give as agony and sacrifices? Yes! because what we harvest is the fruit of our choices/decision.
Pray for guidance everyday!
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